There is no quick way to see if tag elements (such as points on a digital card or individual elements within an array) are used or not. The only way to tell if they are used is to cross reference each individual element that you care to check.
I have already had conversations with technical support, and requested the addition of this function. Like you said, I think that a basic feature of RSLogix 5/500 would naturally be available in Logix 5000.
Maybe they'll add it in version 18, but I'm not holding my breath.