OK, now that I'm on the surface winder page, let's see. First, I find the continuous torque rating of an 8 pole 3kw motor to be 40Nm ( 3 x 9549/715 = 40). But, your choice of motor probably is still ok since you can use motor short-term torque for the acceleration torque.
At max motor speed of 1060rpm, the continuous torque has fallen to 40 x 715/1060 = 27Nm but that is still more than the running torque. The short-term torque, assuming the motor is designed for 200% s.t. torque would reduce to 40 x 2 x 715/1060 x 715/1060 = 36.4Nm. (Short-term overload torque reduces by the overspeed ratio squared)
That 364Nm on the output of the gearbox is short of the 560Nm by quite a bit but, since most of the 560Nm is accel torque, I think you will be ok.
Be sure to size the drive short-term amps to be at least 200% of motor FLA or you won't get all the overload torque the motor is capable of. Also, the motor will need an auxiliary blower for low speed cooling and you will need to consider how fast you need to stop. If you are using the drive/motor system for stopping purposes, you will need to recheck both the motor and the drive for stopping torque capacity. It is not uncommon for the braking conditions to require a larger motor than the motoring conditions.
Hope this gets you going in good shape. And, how about being done with that "idiot" bit. You sound like a pretty solid person and I applaud you for trying to think this through and then being willing to suffer through a review of your work to be sure its ok.