So if there is not requirement that you share data with FTViewSE, why not just allow the camera management software to run as an application on the base PC? This may mean altering the user/security settings of the host PC/server.
Oh, but it appears you have a solution working through active x, but it limits you how?
I would personally, open up the host OS security to allow the camera management software run alongside FTView, based on user login credentials, but that would need to be fully vetted before I'd trust it. Why burden FTView with "contain-ering" a video stream?