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Don't ever connect an ethernet port to a DH-485 port. If your ethernet card still works, you got *VERY* lucky. Usually it blows the network card out.
If you want to use a PCMCIA solution, you will need to use a 1784-PCMK card. If your computer has a true, 9 pin, d-sub serial connector, you can use the PIC module. B&B electronics sells an alternative for a few $$ less than AB, which may be worth checking out. I picked one up, and it works good. Model 232ABRJ45. Although the PIC/B&B solution can work with some PCMCIA or USB to serial adapters, I don't recommend it, as it seems fairly random from system to system as to which ones work, and which don't.
Do you have a copy of RS-Logix 500? There are no third party alternatives for development software.
Finally, what OS are you using? If it is an NT based version of windows (NT, 2000, or XP) RSLinx will replace your serial driver if you go with the PIC/B&B approach. This is because the timing requirements on the DH-485 network are so tight, that a standard serial driver is unable to meet the packet timouts. A custom serial driver handles the timing between packets and keeps the link active. The downside is that if you have the PIC driver loaded, your serial port is captured, and cannot be used for anything else until it is unloaded.
Hope this helps!
--Joe Jansen