Corrie, don't get offended please. There are plenty of people here who can and will help. It is just that many come here, do not show what they have done and expect people here to do there homework. They would learn nothing that way.
There is a section at the top of the page called "learn PLCs". You will probably find this most useful. There is also a simulator available that Phil has been kind enough to develop for all to use.
I am glad you are doing as much research as you can as you will learn far more that way. Just post what you have done and there will be plenty of comments/recommendations I am sure. If you require some links for some good stuff, please reply and I will post some for you.
By the way, you may be finding it hard in a "man's" world but good luck to you. I did a job for a company some years ago and the electrician I was working with was female. Absolutely the best electrician the company had on the work site quite frankly. Could have been a model quite frankly and looked great in work gear and steel toed boots. Understood controls. I have since been teaching her, in our own time, more about controls, design, software and commissioning. I am pleased to say that in some areas she now beats me hands down.