osmanmom,
I know you are trying to help, but a small word of advice.
I've noticed in a lot of threads, where you reply, that you post multiple short, or one line replies, often including links. While I know you are not, it can look like you are spamming, or trying to increase your post count quickly.
Forum etiquette would suggest you research first and then compile what you have found into a single post. Or if you have found more info shortly after posting, then edit your posts to include the updated info.
Looking at your list of replies you have spent about 40 minutes searching for helpful links. That is commendable, but waiting until you have finished searching and then replying would be more in keeping with good Forum practices.
Respectfully,
George