To start off, I'm going to state that this is a very poor design concept for a 3 wire Start - Stop control circuit, for the very simple reason that if you want to turn something off in a hurry, having to find, grab and twist a switch, as opposed to slapping an extended head button, can possibly result in loss of limb or life. There is a REASON why Push Buttons are used and why this is not a popular combination.
So right off the bat, I
strongly urge you to reconsider the advice from TConnolly (
post #26) in using a Push-Pull switch for this: momentary Pull to Start, spring return to Center, momentary Push to Stop, often also used with an integral red light wired to illuminate when the starter is energized.
800T-FXN6A7 is the non-illuminated version, it has the exact contact arrangement you are looking for,
800T-FXNQH2RA7 is the same thing but with a Red LED light in the center. One hole, 3 functions, no added risk.
If you insist on pursuing this foolishness of using a selector switch, the KE7 cam is the one that will get you what you want, with 2ea XA contact blocks, one on the White side, the other on the Black side. Wire Circuit A-Black as your Start, wire circuit B-White as your Stop. Center position; circuit A-Black (Start) is open, Circuit B-White (Stop) is closed. Turn to the Right (Start), Circuit A-Black closes, circuit B-White remains closed. Turn to the Left (Stop), Circuit A-Black remains open, Circuit B-White opens.
If you want to experiment with the switch you already have, you might be able to use a Late-break NC contact, 800T-XD4, stacked onto one side or the other. That's how they get the Push-Pull to work that way, because it changes the operating distance of the plunger. Years ago there used to be a MUCH more complex target chart depicting all possible combinations of cams and contact blocks, but that was from a day long past before people just began to use inexpensive solid state logic devices to do this sort of stuff.