all too familiar for me too haha. another one i had was a guy arguing with me that you have to use 3 wire to wire a 3way. now i agree that 3wire method is better, however you can do it in a 3wire. i learned that renovating an old home, back before they had 3wire. i call it the pyramid technique.
Years ago, I worked for an Electrical shop in Colorado Springs, CO which was run by the old man and his son.
Gary (the son) didn't have much - if any - electrical experience and was finishing off his basement at home. So he asked me if I would come over on a weekend and help him out. Gary was a nice enough guy, so sure, why not?
Gary showed me what he wanted (including five three-way circuits) and then told me that he needed to go upstairs for a moment and would be right back. He went upstairs and that was the last that I saw of him until the end of the day.
Okay, nice guy or not, he was taking advantage of me.
Paybacks being what they are, a female dog, I wired each of his three-way circuits a different way. I showed him what I had done after I had finished and then had to draw out each circuit to prove to him that it would work.
I essentially put him in the position of having to hire an electrician to fix his own house.
In these examples the switch leg goes to the light fixture. And when I mention "power", I'm referring to the "hot" and a neutral being fed from the same breaker (in other words the same circuit throughout)
"Normal" 3-way. Power on one end, switch leg on the other, three conductor w/ground in between
Dead-end 3-way. Power and switch leg at the same end, three conductor (w/gnd) goes to other switch
Kinda oddball example.
Power in the light fixture, with a three conductor going to each switch.
Legal in some states (Colorado, for example). Not advised.
Power in each switch, switch leg to light fixture, two conductor w/gnd to other switch.
Power in one switch and light fixture. Two conductor to light from one switch, three conductor from other switch to light.