Wonderware cant talk at all with rslinx lite. It can talk to Rslix Professional and OEM because these versions of linx can be configured as OPC and DDE servers. You do not need rslinx to make this work. All you need is ABTCP.
You can ping via host name. The abtcp and the access name appear to be right. So, as far as I can tell, this should work. Ive use this set up all the time, and have no problems. At this point, I would say that it is wonderware (which over the last 6 years of using it, ive come to call "that buggy poorly written over priced piece of sheisse" (but thats another story)) The only thing I can say is it has to do with intouch ver 8.0. Ive never used 8.0, just 7.11, 7.0, and 5.6. Maybe U can get 7.11 for a price break or something. Also, just to throw a bone in, ive found win XP to also be a piece of junk, and highly suggest using win 2000 sp2 instead. So, it may not be wonderware, but windows. But it IS one of them.
PS. Definetly get the newer versions of Linx and Logix, you will be much happier.