use the orfice plates, add diff press xmiters(for flow rate). get the ball valves add actuators to them I suggest 40 to 20 ma control for these. A compact or even a micro logix should work nice for the PID. Get a nice HMI to display your HARD work on. sounds like a justifiable project kick it upstairs for budget attach your bosses name to it so he thinks its his Idea, that should help speed up the approval process. Good luck!!